Genesis 13:8 (NET) - Abram said to Lot, “Let there be no quarreling between me and you, and between my herdsmen and your herdsmen, for we are close relatives.
Friction developed when Abram traveled with his nephew Lot.
Both had an abundance of flocks, herds, and tents.
But the land was unable to support them both.
The herdsmen of Abram and Lot began quarreling.
The only solution was for Abram and Lot to part ways.
This could have been a source of contention as well.
Fortunately, Abram knew just how to cope with the situation.
Abram spoke with Lot.
He said that quarrels should be set aside.
He told Lot that since they must separate, he would give Lot his choice of direction.
Lot looked eastward over the land of the Jordan.
He saw that it was fertile with an abundance of water.
Lot chose this direction.
Abram then traveled in the opposite direction toward Canaan.
By human standards we would say that Lot came out ahead in the transaction.
But God had designs of his own.
He told Abram to look in every direction.
He would give Abram all the land he saw.
He also promised Abram that he would father many descendants.
Abram settled in a good place and built an altar to the Lord.
Paul also understood the importance of reconciliation.
He understood that, for Christians, it is important to place others first.
Romans 12:10 (NET) - Be devoted to one another with mutual love, showing eagerness in honoring one another.
True love is a love without hypocrisy.
True love is a love without condition.
True love is a love with honor.
Yes, true love is a love that gives the other first choice.
We are reconciled with God through Christ.
God did this because He loved us.
We must love God in return.
We must also love others.
That means we should seek to end quarrels and reconcile ourselves with them.
It also means giving them the first choice.
Blessings,
Jim Pokorny
The Other Brother Jim
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